I met up with the mother of the bad check writer today at Starbucks. She handed me $90, even though she and her daughter technically owed me $100. She started to explain the money, and said that she was paying me for the braiding ($60) and for the bad check fee ($25). The bad check fee from my bank was actually only $20, so I corrected her. I did remind her, though, that she said she would pay me $20 for gas, which meant that she actually owed me $100, not $90. She then asked me to hand the money back to her so she could take back $5…because she only wanted to pay me $5 for gas, when the original agreement was to pay me $20 in gas to drive from Lakeland – her daughter told her that I did not drive from Lakeland, that I was actually only in Brandon and had not gone all the way back to Lakeland. That wasn’t true. I refused to give her the money back. It was only $5, but damn it, it was my $5. Even if it was decided that she didn’t owe me for fuel, I made the decision right there that I deserved every bit of that $90 to have to deal with their bullshit. I got a bad check, then they were a month late fixing the problem after giving me a ton of attitude, then I had to meet the mother at Starbucks to finally get paid? Ugh. If nothing else, that $5 is the pain-in-the ass fee. I put the money in my pocket and walked off, told her I was done dealing with her and her daughter, and she could keep the other $10 she owed me. She started YELLING on the patio at Starbucks, in front of several other customers, that I was dishonest, and that god would punish me and that it would come back to me…I said nothing else and got in my car and drove off. From now on, I am only braiding for people that I KNOW. I am so infuriated by this whole situation…I was shaking when I drove away from Starbucks.
Thankfully, I have a couple of wonderful horses and extremely sweet dogs to make me feel better about all this garbage. :)
And, after all, it’s over now. I didn’t get all of the money, but I got most of it, and I never have to see those self-righteous pieces of crap again.


Hi There,
I happened upon your story from a line of hyperlinks from facebook. I have an OTTB myself…we have been training together and learning together. You bad check story, though, hit upon something I have had to just live with…people are crazy. As much as I love being around horses, I am certified as a highschool teacher. You would not believe how crazy parents can be….at times they make no sense at all. I find normacy around horses….I can’t go more than three days having to work…without riding or just being around my horse.
Thanks, yeah, people ARE crazy. Especially horse people. Well, not all of us in the same ways, but when a horse person is crazy, they go all out. Heh. I’m going to go out right now and enjoy a peaceful and not crazy morning with my horses.